About

I’m here to support you on your journey toward healing and personal growth.

Welcome

Life can sometimes feel overwhelming—whether you’re experiencing anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, the effects of past experiences, or simply feeling stuck and unsure of what comes next. Therapy provides a safe space to slow down, feel heard, gain clarity, and move toward meaningful change. I’m Maryam Khodaeikalaki, LPCC, a licensed psychotherapist since 2011, with extensive experience working with adults, adolescents, couples, and families. I support clients with anxiety, depression, trauma and PTSD, ADHD, addiction and substance use, relationship and family concerns, grief, self-esteem, parenting and co-parenting, stress, anger, intimate partner violence, and major life transitions. My approach is collaborative, compassionate, and individualized, drawing from CBT, DBT, mindfulness, MBCT, EFT, solution-focused therapy, positive psychology, and coaching-based strategies. I believe you already have strengths within you, and therapy can help you reconnect with those strengths, develop practical tools, and create lasting, meaningful change. I am bilingual in English and Farsi/Persian and offer teletherapy to clients in California, Virginia, Oklahoma, and Missouri. My goal is to provide a warm, safe, and judgment- free environment where you can feel comfortable being yourself and work toward a more balanced, fulfilling life.

I am dedicated to helping my clients build a strong, healthy, and peaceful self, no matter what challenges they may be facing. Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, or the stress of daily life, I am here to support you with compassion and expertise.

My practice is deeply rooted in the principles of empathy, mindfulness, and collaboration. I understand that every individual’s story is unique, and I am committed to creating a safe, welcoming environment where you can explore your emotions and challenges at your own pace.

In our sessions, I strive to create a safe and nurturing environment where you can explore your thoughts and emotions without judgment. My approach is conversational yet insightful, using everyday language to delve into complex emotional and psychological issues. I encourage you to be curious about your inner world and to embrace the process of change with courage and resilience.

At the heart of my practice is a deep respect for each client’s unique journey. I am here not just as a therapist, but as a compassionate companion on your path to wellness. Together, we will work to uncover your strengths, build new coping skills, and create a life that reflects your true self.

My Background

I earned my degree in Human Relations/Counseling from the University of Oklahoma in 2010, and I have since gained extensive experience in various therapeutic settings. I am licensed to practice in California, Virginia, Oklahoma and Missouri, and I am fluent in both English and Persian/Farsi. My diverse background allows me to connect with clients from different walks of life and provide culturally sensitive care.

In addition to my work as a psychotherapist, I specialize in treating drug and alcohol addiction and hold several certifications that enhance my ability to support clients on their path to recovery. I am also a member of the American Psychological Association, which keeps me connected to the latest research and developments in the field.

Certifications and Licenses

I am proud to hold several licenses and certifications that enhance my ability to support clients across various states and specialized areas of care:

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in California: CA#2645
Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia: VA#0701008723
Licensed Professional Counselor in Oklahoma: OK#5109
Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri: MO #2024045995
Licensed Alcohol & Drug Counselor/Mental Health in Oklahoma: OK#1094
Credentialed Alcoholism & Substance Abuse Counselor in New York: NY#32118
Certified Forensic Counselor: NAFC #28398 Level 2

These certifications allow me to provide specialized care in addiction recovery, forensic counseling, and other areas critical to my clients’ mental health and well-being.

Therapeutic Services Offered:

Individual Adult Therapy: Tailored sessions focused on helping you navigate personal challenges and achieve your mental health goals.
Couples Therapy / Marriage Counseling: Assisting couples in building stronger relationships, improving communication, and resolving conflicts.
Family Counseling: Supporting families in fostering healthy dynamics and addressing complex family issues.

Specializing in Treatment for:

Anxiety, panic, and phobias
Depression and mood concerns
ADHD and behavioral concerns
Trauma and PTSD
Addiction and substance use, including alcohol and cannabis
Anger and emotion management
Stress and work-related stress
Relationship, communication, and couples concerns
Breakups, separation, divorce, and infidelity
Family conflict and parenting/co-parenting
Grief and loss
Self-esteem, perfectionism, and body image concerns
Life transitions and multicultural concerns
Domestic or intimate partner violence
Women’s mental health
Bipolar disorders
Eating-related concerns
Pregnancy, prenatal, and postpartum challenges

Therapeutic Modalities:

I integrate a variety of therapeutic modalities to provide a holistic approach to healing:
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Helping you identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviors.
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Focusing on mindfulness, emotion regulation, and building effective coping skills.
- Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT): Combining mindfulness practices with cognitive therapy to prevent the recurrence of depression and anxiety.
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT): Enhancing emotional bonds in couples and families.
- Exposure Therapy: Helping you confront and overcome fears and anxieties.
- Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT): Focusing on finding practical solutions to current issues.
- Trauma-Informed Therapy: Addressing the impact of past trauma on your current well-being.

Therapeutic Modalities

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviors.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy

Mindfulness, emotion regulation, and effective coping skills.

Mindfulness Approach

Present-moment awareness to reduce reactivity and stress.

Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy

combines mindfulness and cognitive therapy to help you manage difficult thoughts and emotions more effectively.

Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy

Enhances emotional bonds in couples and families.

Exposure Therapy

Confront and overcome fears and anxieties gradually.

Strength-Based Approach

Builds on personal strengths and resources you already have.

Positive Psychology

Cultivates well-being, meaning, and resilience.

Solution-Focused Brief Therapy

Practical, focused solutions to current issues.

Trauma-Informed Therapy

Addresses the impact of past trauma on current well-being.

Narrative Therapy

Reshape the stories that define your identity and choices.

Gottman Method

Couples therapy that helps partners improve communication, manage conflict, rebuild trust, deepen emotional intimacy, and create a stronger shared life together.

Practice Information

Location: Teletherapy available in Virginia, California, Oklahoma and Missouri.
Consultations: Complimentary 15-minute phone consultations to help you start your journey.
Sessions: Virtual sessions to accommodate your needs.
Languages: English, Persian/Farsi.

I look forward to supporting you on your journey toward healing and self-discovery.